If you could ask anyone who knows me and my family, they would probably tell you about my three girls — how cute and little they are, of course. I’m not trying to brag, really. I do know how cute my girls are. I’m a proud mom…What can I say? But as a momma of three little girls, I have heard that statement a lot. Well, that, and the apprehension in their voice; “You have three girls?” I know I have my hands full. I have three children in this day and age — period.
But in all that apprehension, there are smiles that come with it.
Every single day one of them presents me with a gift; whether it’s the gift of a good morning kiss, a question of curiosity, or a simple hello to start the day. As they are growing older, I’m learning more and more about them. I find it exciting as a parent to see the world through their eyes and be the first to hear about their hopes and dreams for their future. I only hope my support for every little interest that crosses their path feeds their inspirations for all the possibilities ahead.
As I am open to inspiration all around, I live with three amazing little beings every day that inspire me. My eldest, Hannah, reminds me to go for my dreams as she is not afraid to aspire for her dream as a rock star. Isabelle, my second baby, reminds me of my love for books as she gets just as excited for a trip to Barnes & Noble. And that wit of hers reminds me of myself, I must say. The youngest of our family, Allyson, is most like her dad, but she gets her dance moves from me.
Girls, girls, girls…Do you feel sorry for my husband? Even our pets are females!
This week I’ve been reading Allison DuBois’ Secrets of the Monarch. Ms. DuBois explains how in families we are living dreams, or seeking paths, of the ones who have gone before us; passing the torch, if you will. As I read her words, they resonated with me. I see attributes of myself in my three girls as I’m sure my mother could see some part of her in me. Mom always tells me how her bossiness (no offense, Great Grandma) came from her grandmother, as well as, how particular she is about cleaning the house. I can tell you I’ve inherited the same traits. Thank you, Great Grandma! She was a great woman.
I do hope I am making my ancestors proud by living this life the best I possibly can. I wouldn’t be here without them. That is one thing I have been teaching my girls. I want them to know who came before them; to know where they come from. I feel everyone should do their family tree. Somehow knowing your family history puts things in perspective.
Who was it that said, “Knowing where you came from helps you to know where you are going.” I’m sure that isn’t the exact quote, but you get the idea.
